In December 2021, my mom (one month shy of 81 years old) passed away in her home under hospice care after experiencing multiple strokes starting in September. Watching her decline and then die, I remember the intense feeling of my own limited time, opportunities, and experiences left in my life. Reflecting on my mom’s age, it occurred to me that I had about fifteen years to do those things I had been waiting to do. Writing is one of those things.

Fifteen years and Counting reflects my interest in the journey of aging. After decades of giving my energy to employers and caring for my family, I am ready to narrow my focus to things that matter to me, create and savor new experiences, and navigate the trails and trials of elderhood.

In a Western culture where youth and beauty are prized attributes, I want to consider the last phase of our lives that is mostly ignored by our culture. What does aging look like for us? What are our concerns, challenges, and joys? How will we plan for transitions in our aging journey? How have you prepared for aging? What do you value most as you age? Do you have a bucket list? How does a sense of place and home define your aging path?

I seek a community of readers who are curious about living more fully as they age and believe in our stories' power. Readers who appreciate both heartfelt and humorous content. Readers who want to share ideas and thoughts about aging happily.

You should expect an essay on most weekends of the year. They will include my thoughts and research about growing older, becoming comfortable with changes, learning to live with increasing loss, supporting wellness, honoring nature, traveling the American West, books that deserve to be read, building resilience in an unpredictable world, adventuring outdoors with a hitch in my giddy-up, celebrating the seasons, and creating our legacy.

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A newsletter about journeys and aging. Exploring the final decades of our lives: our places, dreams, regrets, gratitude, fears, hope, nostalgia, and challenges.

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